If discussions about politics always lead to heated debates, it may actually just be best to avoid them.  Anytime political discussions come up, leave the room or change the topic.  If you find yourself getting angry about their stance, take a deep breath and understand that everyone is entitled to their beliefs.  Try to focus on topics that appease both sides, or keep things civil when you do discuss political topics.  Having face-to-face conversations is critical for maintaining a relationship, but you also require a sensitivity to one another's feelings during those conversations.

In order to fully understand their perspective, it is beneficial to ask questions.  This will ultimately provide you with their reasons for feeling the way they do or having the political beliefs they have.  Before you rush towards judgment for their differing beliefs, you will want to understand the reasons behind them.  Perhaps they have personal experience with something that points them towards a particular belief over another.  Asking questions is a way to show that you are interested simply because it is your friend's belief.   This doesn't mean that you too need to adopt the same beliefs.

By following these few tips, you can compromise with friends that have opposing political views.  When you engage in social interactions with them, you will find yourself enjoying the conversations and avoiding conflict much more.  Working with a counselor in Winter Garden will provide you with the tools to become more accepting and tolerant of those who carry different beliefs.  Contact us to schedule an appointment with our counselors today.