Trust issues create relationship trouble that can be hard to fix alone. What are some common reasons trust is broken?

1. Lying

   People put their best foot forward early in a relationship. They are being open and willing to share all aspects of themselves. At some point, one person may begin to withhold information or might tell a lie. This act creates a level of doubt in the honesty of the relationship. Confrontation might resolve the issue temporarily with one person agreeing to change. Relationship counselors often see the person who was lied to is left with lingering insecurities in the relationship or the commitment. Relationship counseling offers couples insight into themselves and each other for better ways for healthy communication.

2. Infidelity

   Affairs occur with a physical or an emotional act or transgression. There are many reasons one person might be unfaithful in a relationship. When the other partner finds out, either by admittance or by self- discovery, the initial reaction may be that the relationship is over. Relationship counseling helps you rebuild hope in your future together and forgive events of the past.

3. Money

   Money issues are topics many couples argue over. Relationship counselors see clients that report one person has been dishonest in their spending habits. This dishonesty may be negatively impacting the couples credit scores or their ability to purchase a home. People sometimes have a lot of guilt or shame over personal spending habits. This leads to lying about money creates tension and insecurities. Relationship counselors help couples forgive each other and develop better communication for full disclosure.

4. The Past

   It takes a lot of energy to hold onto secrets. Many times people are reluctant to be fully open about their past and secrets get kept. While it isn’t always advisable or necessary to tell someone all about your past experiences, lying isn’t the answer. Being able to have firm boundaries and resolve the need your partner has to know everything will help trust issues from breeding.